24 Aug s always in your discussion, respond thoughtfully to this 2 postings.
s always in your discussion, respond thoughtfully to this 2 postings.
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The Buddy System; Sex in High School and College: What’s Love Got to Do With It?: [FINAL Edition]
It is true that teens nowadays are totally different from the teens 10 or 15 years ago and this totally understandable due to the change of lifestyle, technology, education. They are more knowledgeable to almost everything at early age. They act like an adult, talk like adult but in selected manner. Sex in high school and college is no news few years ago, and there’s no solid study, evidence and prevention of why and how they are doing this. In some cases, “love” is being blamed when caught red-handed. In this topic, it can be said that “sex is just sex, no more, no less”. This activity by teens are more like lust, fulfilling their physical needs. Lust is more of physical attraction wherein love is emotional attraction (Borresen K., 2018). One of the issues of this activity is, when an individual is ready to enter a serious relationship, he/she will have a hard time on figuring out who and who would she/he knows that’s the person for him/her.
A boy’s life Tyler’s gender identity changes, and he and his family are happy
In this topic, it shows the support from the parents and how the parents trust their child. Before, not all parents agree with this, they don’t believe about gender change or whatever. Nowadays, it is more accepted not only by them but to the whole community. A parent must be open to his/her child when it comes to this matter. They should talk and listen to their children and don’t consider this as rebellion (Staff, 2017). Parents should respect child’s decisions at some point. It is true that they gave and did everything to raise their child properly and they also should understand that such decision by their child doesn’t mean they did something wrong when raising them. Going against it won’t help the situation. Understanding and learning more about it will guide both the parent and the child. This topic is a good example of parents as a good listener to their child.
The Latest Sexual Revolution: A Generation content to wait
This topic is somehow a counterpart of the “buddy system”. Some people are having sex for many different reasons. Some are doing this as an outlet of pain after a breakup from a relationship, some just want to experience it and there are others who just like to do it as many times as possible. Others put values on sex, it is something you and your partner should be having together. It is connection between partners where brains release neurochemicals when having intercourse (Dick R., 2018). To some individual, it is not something that he/she can rush. Some individuals are being pressured by their friends who had sex before, which is shouldn’t be happening. It’s an individuals’ choice if he/she wants to do it now or not. This means they’re not in control of themselves and their decisions, resulting breakups to a lot painful than it should be. (Dick R., 2018). Sex will come to almost every individual, wait for it to come, rushing something comes with consequences.
They’re having babies. Are we helping?
Consequence as view from others and blessing to others. It is a lifetime commitment and it includes another life when someone gets pregnant. A teen getting pregnant is a lot harder than an adult getting pregnant. They’re too young to have parent’s responsibility. If it has done, parent/s must accept and support their child. It will be selfish if they will ignore, worst, abandon their child after getting pregnant. Not all will accept this mind set, but if a life is existing in the mother’s womb, as an adult, knowing better and the difference between right and wrong, must show support to the teen and give them guidance and at the same time giving them the lesson learned from their unnecessary actions. Teens on the other hand must learn from this and they can’t just rely on the adults guiding them and pass all the responsibility to their parents. Teens having babies are still teens, they are not as ready to be a parent, they will need a lot of guidance from the parents and other adults, not disciplining (Koffman O., 2009).
What Parents Can do?
Values coming from home is very important. Parenting nowadays is different, children are more informed about the world through technology. Therefore, parents must do some adjustments on the parenting style. They need to be more open to their children, more specific of what’s wring from wrong and discussing some realities of life. At some point, parents will have to discuss some things to their children about love, relationship and sex. Today, parents can’t be discreet or hiding facts when it comes to this matter. It is always better to have this knowledge and first conversations between the parent and child than child to other people. Parenting today is more of relational and emotional health (Wagenhals D., n.d.).
An article below is good guide about parenting and sexuality. It offers some tips on how to communicate with parent’s children. Discussing about consent, instinct, demonstrating healthy boundaries, values about sexuality, etc. It feels better when a parent knows he/she is still connected with his/her child even though they reach adolescence and young adulthood to full adulthood. In order to build this connection, they must have their children aware that they will always listen and can always have conversation with them. Boundaries must be set at early age, monitoring or supervision of child’s use of gadgets is important. Educating them about body parts, touches and creating an environment where they can discuss about sex (McCarthy C., 2018). These are some ways to help parents on how to approach their children about sensitive matters like sex or sexuality.
https://www.parentmap.com/article/parenting-children-toward-healthy-sexuality
References:
Borresen K. (2018, June 21). The Difference Between Lust and Love, According to Relationship Experts. Retrieved from HuffPost: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/difference-between-love-lust_n_5b2a965ee4b0321a01cd46ba
Dick R. (2018, October 31). 3 Reasons Why Sex Can Wait: Part 1. Creating Positive Relationships. Retrieved from https://www.cpr4teens.org/3-reasons-why-sex-can-wait-part-1/
Koffman O. (2009, October 6). Second Thoughts: Supporting teenage mothers. Retrieved from The Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/society/joepublic/2009/oct/07/youngpeople-socialexclusion
McCarthy C. (2018, February 6). 4 things all parents should do to help prevent sexual abuse. Harvard Health Publishing. Retrieved from https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/4-things-all-parents-should-do-to-help-prevent-sexual-abuse-2018020613277
Staff. (2017, September 1). Children and gender identity: Support your child. Retrieved from Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/childrens-health/in-depth/children-and-gender-identity/art-20266811
Wagenhals D. (n.d.). Why is so Hard to Parent Today? The big picture of parental responsibility. Retrieved from Care for Parenting Educaiton: https://centerforparentingeducation.org/library-of-articles/focus-parents/hard-parent-today-big-picture-parental-responsibility/
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